when there was more than ~700 active connections,
* sendfile (non-https downloads) could fail
* mdns and ssdp could fail to reinitialize on network changes
...because `select` can't handle FDs higher than 512 on windows
(1024 on linux/macos), so prefer `poll` where possible (linux/macos)
but apple keeps breaking and unbreaking `poll` in macos,
so use `--no-poll` if necessary to force `select` instead
* --doctitle defines most titles, prefixed with "--name: " by default
* the file browser is only prefixed with the --name itself
* --nth ("no-title-hostname") removes it
* also removed by --nih ("no-info-hostname")